Mark Foley :: In Perspective

I have never made a mistake in my life. I have never said something that I regretted for years. I have never unintentionally hurt someone. There are no levels to personal perfection. You are, or you are not. I am. Therefore, I am eminently qualified to pass judgment on Mark Foley and all members of society who have erred in their ways.

The exchange of inane sexually tainted banter with a juvenile is a very serious failure of morality, character, and integrity. How does it compare with the acts of Bernard Madoff, a man who has caused much, much more permanent pain to many, many more people? How does it compare with the acts of a wealthy local financier who was recently convicted of some type of sexual encounters with underage girls?

Now, consider the fact that Mr. Foley immediately and openly acknowledged his shortcomings and accepted a penalty that is extremely harsh. He resigned his high profile position as a United States Congressman and accepted the vituperation of his colleagues, his constituents, and society as a whole. Consider that after thorough investigations no legal authority found a basis to file charges. That is even more significant when you factor in the moral outrage directed at him and the investigatory authorities from all levels.

Although he has apologized profusely, his request for forgiveness has not reached my ears or eyes. He has acknowledged his failures and accepted mass condemnation. If you choose to forgive him and wish him well, then you are acting within the scope of the faith that taught you compassion and love. If you choose to scorn and rebuke him, then may you find peace in your life, for you are a troubled soul indeed.

Oh, that first paragraph? Just a dream… just a dream.